Having just had a lovely chat with my sister-in-law, I am making some edits to this post :-)
John
Winchester Holman Jr. was born on December 6, 1904 in the family home at
418
Oakdale Avenue Chicago, Illinois. He was the second child of
JohnWinchester Holman and
Katherine Pearl Seeley. His younger brother, William
Winchester would become my father-in-law. I met Uncle John in 1987 when my
husband and I traveled to California with our oldest daughter who was then 2
years old. My impression of John at that time was that he once must have been a
rather imposing gentleman. At 82, John was living in one room in what I
remember to be a retirement home. After our meeting, I remember feeling quite
sad for him – his shirt was stained and rumpled, his room had a small cooking
area which was not in great shapes – it just seemed to me to be to be a lonely
life. As the years passed, I have learned more about Uncle John. “Sad” is not
an adjective that most family members use when describing him.
(Actually my sister-in-law did use that adjective during our conversation today! So I guess my instincts were right on.)
There are several stories, often shared at family functions, illustrating John’s boisterous, off-putting manner. Apparently, John was not one to keep his opinions to himself and this often caused some tension within the family. I won’t share those stories here as it is probably not appropriate to do so. Plus, I can’t really remember all the details!